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How to be in a good relationship? – Singapore FengShui Master

January 12, 2011

One of the most common topic clients consult me about is love. Almost everyone wants to be loved and want to feel love and most importantly be in the right relationship.

Some will be in a blissful relationship with the same partner till the end of their life, just like in fairy tales. Unfortunately, some are not destined to be that way. Some will always have conflicts with their partner or spouse. Some will have more than one marriage. Some people seem to be in complicated relationships or always attract the wrong people into their lives. Some will never get married; some will always have temptations or affairs outside the marriage.

Potentially what happens in a person’s life in regards to his relationship can be seen or read when I plot their destiny chart base on birth date and time. If that is so, are all relationships pre-destined? Should you just leave everything to fate and if things fail, just blame it on your life?

I said potentially, I did not say definitely, that is because people do have a certain level of control in their life. For example, if I see in my client’s chart and tell him that potentially he will attract lots of women in his life resulting in potential temptations or affairs even after he gets married, I will get different responses from different clients. Example,

a)   “Good!”

b)   ”I know, but I only love my wife”

c)   ”How? What should I do?”

I cannot decide for you how you lead your life.  You have a choice, I tell you potentially what will happen, your own decisions and actions have direct impact on your life. For “a” and “b”, they have already made their choices they know what they want, for “c”, I usually will response with “You have a choice, you can always say no to temptations.”

For those that know BAZI (Chinese astrology) will know that every 12 years there will be a clash into the spouse “palace” in a person’s destiny chart. It does not mean that every 12 years one will get divorced! It just means potentially there will be some conflict or arguments during that period, whether it leads to divorce, there are many factors to consider.  There are also monthly, daily or hourly influences in our life, for example, some months you argue more, some days you argue more; even during certain hour of the day you are more prone to arguments. For everyone the influences of the hour, day, month and years will be different and the effect with be different for different people. It is rare when couples don’t argue, accept the fact that it is normal for conflicts or disagreement to happen, but how you handle conflicts makes a difference.

By knowing your destiny chart and luck cycle, a person become more aware of potential problems he may face, he can be more conscious when he deals with the conflict or he can minimize it and handle with more care.

May your relationship be blissful, for those who are single, I wish that you find the right person.

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